Mirror, Mirror: The Power of Self-Reflection Before Setting Intentions

Creating meaningful intentions for a plant-medicine journey (Part 1)

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Embarking on an intentional psychedelic journey can be transformative, offering new perspectives, a chance to heal psychic wounds, free yourself from paralyzing ruminations, and catalyze personal growth.

However, even profound peak experiences can lack coherence without a clear, focused intention.

Imagine traveling to a bustling metropolis in a foreign country (Tokyo, for instance) without planning an itinerary, booking a hotel, or learning basic Japanese before your trip.

Will you have a fantastic experience? No doubt. But you might miss out on life-changing experiences without some focused research beforehand. Preparing and setting an intention before entering a non-ordinary state is that research.

Intention-setting for a psychedelic journey isn't just goal-setting ("I want to lose 20 pounds").

It involves consciously creating a meaningful anchor that grounds your experience before your journey, keeps you tethered to your purpose while you're there, and helps you interpret your experience at the journey's end.

But before crafting your grounding intention, take time to explore the deeper currents drawing you to a journey. Reflect on both the conscious motivations pulling you forward and the subtle undercurrents and imbalances that may be shifting under the surface of awareness.

Mirror, Mirror: The Power of Self-Reflection Before Setting Intentions


Reflect on Your Physical Well-Being

Even if you have a concrete intention from the outset, assessing where you are in your life can enhance your journey experience.

Are there any areas in your life, history, thoughts, or emotions that feel imbalanced?

Reflect on the questions below, each addressing a different dimension of your life that can serve as a structured framework for self-discovery and connection with your true inner self and your relationships with others and your community.

Breathing Patterns

Take a moment to observe your breathing.

  • Do you notice areas of tightness when you breathe?
  • Do you feel a sense of ease or expansion or are your breaths shallow?
  • If you sense constriction, what might be happening in your life that's responsible for it?

Understanding these breathing sensations can reveal physical or emotional sources of tension that may benefit from exploration.

Breathing and Emotional States

Your breathing patterns can reflect and influence your emotional health. The article "Breathing Patterns and Emotional States — How Are They Connected?" explores this connection and offers insights into how conscious breathing can enhance emotional well-being.

Conscious Breathing Benefits

Engaging in conscious breathing can reduce stress and improve mental health. The Duke Health Blog discusses the surprising benefits of conscious breathing, including stress reduction and improved focus.

Nutritional Habits

Diet plays a critical role in mood and mental clarity and how we nurture our bodies and our relationship to food at any given moment sometimes sheds light on how we're feeling.

  • Are your eating habits consistent and nourishing?
  • If not, why do these patterns exist? Can you sense how they affect your well-being?
Eating Habits and Well-Being

Understanding your relationship with food can shed light on your emotional state. The BetterUp Blog provides insights into how physical well-being, including nutrition, affects overall health.

Sleep Quality

Your sleep patterns serve as a mirror of your physical and emotional wellbeing - disruptions often signal deeper unrest beneath the surface. Consider these questions about your relationship with rest:

  • Am I experiencing inconsistent sleep patterns?
  • Do these imbalances relate to stress, physical discomfort, or other issues?
  • What messages might your sleep patterns be trying to tell you? Notice what intuitive insights arise when you consider the ebb and flow of your rest.

What you learn by addressing sleep issue root causes can be a valuable focus area for your intention.

Stress and Tension in Your Body

Notice how your body holds emotional experiences - where anxiety tightens your shoulders, where fear creates tightness in your chest, where worry settles in your stomach. These physical echoes of emotion can offer valuable insights.

  • Where do these feelings manifest in your body?
  • How often do you feel them, and what might they signify about your current state?

Exploring Your Mental and Emotional Landscape

Intellectual Engagement

When our natural connection to curiosity and creativity feels dammed, it's worth exploring the source of the blockage. Mental stagnation often signals deeper waters worth exploring.

  • What activities or subjects excite your curiosity?
  • Are there mental (or other) barriers preventing you from pursuing these interests? What are they?

A study in Integrative Psychological and Behavioral Science proposes systematic curiosity as an integrative tool for human flourishing, emphasizing its multidimensional nature and its role in personal development.

Emotional Awareness

Explore recurring emotions or unresolved feelings.

  • Are there patterns of repressed anger, sadness, or joy you wish to address?

Acknowledging these emotions (and understanding their origins) can help you understand how they shape your thoughts and behaviors.

Dreams and Subconscious Patterns

Dreams can serve as a gateway to deeper understanding.

  • Have you noticed symbols or recurring themes in your dreams?
  • What might they reveal about your hidden concerns or aspirations?

Recurring dreams may prompt individuals to face and process problems in their lives, often indicating unmet psychological needs such as the need for independence, competence, or connection with others.

Engaging in dream interpretation and maintaining a dream journal can aid in deciphering hidden messages, offering profound insights into emotions, fears, and aspirations.

Strengthening Your Spiritual Connections

Religious and Spiritual Background

If it resonates, reflect on how your spiritual or religious experiences shape your beliefs, decisions or relationships.

  • Were these experiences, early in life and currently, positive or mostly unhelpful?
  • Are there areas of your spirituality you'd like to explore further? What would you like to explore

Sacred Elements in Your Life

If it resonates, identify rituals, practices, or elements of life that feel sacred to you.

  • How might incorporating ritual into your journey keep you grounded and connected?
  • What sacred knowledge or feeling would you like to bring (or bring more) into your life?

Deepening Your Connection with Others

Healing Relationships

Reflect on your close relationships.

  • Are there areas where you seek forgiveness, understanding, or healing from others?
  • Consider how your life might transform if you could release these burdens - whether by receiving the healing you seek, or by offering that grace to others.

Strengthening Community Ties

Your community connections play a vital role in your personal development and overall health.

  • Do you wish to deepen ties to a group or community?
  • How might renewed communal bonds enhance your life and the life of others?

Balancing Support

Assess the balance of giving and receiving in your relationships.

  • Setting an intention to nurture your relationships or to ask and allow more support from others can create a healthier dynamic and an improved life.

By examining these different dimensions of your being - from physical wellbeing to emotional terrain, from mental clarity to spiritual connection and relationships - you create a detailed map of your inner landscape.

This deep self-knowledge provides fertile soil for planting your intention, which we'll explore in detail in the next article.

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